My name is Jim, and I’m a white man who has benefitted my entire life from a system and a culture designed to give me every advantage; socially, professionally, and financially. There is a word for that system.
Racism.
Does that make me a racist? I believe that question is largely irrelevant. If I live under and benefit from a racist system and stay silent, then I am complicit. Oh sure, I might be sympathetic to my African American friends when the latest incident of a person of color being murdered comes up, but then I crawl back into my white life with my white privilege and go about my white business.
I’m learning how deeply rooted racism is in the United States, going back to the first slave ships arriving on the shores of North America in 1619.
I was one of those naive white people who thought Barack Obama’s election was a turning point for the United States, a coming out party for African Americans who were taking a leap forward toward their rightful place as equal citizens and equal members of our society.
It was a turning point, alright. The white backlash that resulted was a vital part of Donald Trump’s support and election as President. His words and actions during the 2016 campaign and which continue to this day have given white people more freedom, permission and encouragement to let their inner racist out with their words and actions; to help put African Americans and other persons of color “back where they belong.” Court and government sanctioned actions like voter suppression have also gained momentum in recent years, exacerbating the challenges minority communities face in being heard and getting justice.
And now, we have the latest round of horrible murders of African Americans at the hands of white men; George Floyd in Minneapolis, MN and Ahmaud Aubrey in Brunswick, GA (link via Red Letter Christians).
Today, I was moved by two challenges on Facebook. One of my African American church family members asked her white friends how we were showing up as anti-racist. Another, a writer and writing coach I admire, asked what was most important to us in the world and why we write or don’t write about it.
Providing a Safe House (to use my Bishop’s words) for the spirit of God to be poured out on ALL people and a Safe Space where they can live as fully equal members of society is the most important thing in the world to me right now (except my love for God and my wife).
Why then haven’t I spoken out more and been more of an ally to African Americans and people of color, especially those I know and love in my church?
Simple. I’ve been afraid.
Not afraid like African Americans have every reason to be. I don’t have to fear for my life if I get pulled over by a police officer. I don’t have to worry about being assaulted while out at a park or jogging. No, the daily risks in my life are minimal. Because I’m white.
What I have feared is doing it wrong. Saying the wrong thing. Hurting or disappointing (unintentionally) those African Americans I love. Using a flawed understanding of the Bible to support what I’m saying. So, I’ve been studying, intensely in recent weeks. That’s safe. No one gets hurt when it’s just me, books, articles, or videos, and my computer.
No one gets helped either. No one gets encouraged-I sure don’t. Racism is not easy to process. It works in complete contrast to what the Bible teaches and how Jesus lived on earth.
Imagine living under its thumb, everywhere you go, every day of your life.
I’m still afraid, but I’ve finally reached the point where I’m taking time away from what has already been written to stand up, move out, and add my voice as an ally to the African American community.
I’m finally putting my white skin in the game. But it’s no game. Not at all. It’s life and death for far too many people simply because their skin color is different from mine, an advantage I did nothing to earn and that I do not deserve.
Don’t take my word for it. Here’s a thought from the Apostle John:
(1 John 2:11 NIV) But anyone who hates a brother or sister is in the darkness and walks around in the darkness.
Jesus said this, recorded by John:
(John 13:34 NIV) “A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another.
There is so much more in the Bible to speak against racism, and I’ll be sharing it as I go along.
We, meaning Christians who oppose racism and all of the ugly, tragic results of it, are fighting against the words and actions of people, but our true enemy is the spirit of darkness (Ephesians 6:12) which leads people to adopt these attitudes and sustain the existing system of racism in our country. I question how effective it is to label someone a racist, but we can certainly point to what comes out of their mouth or how they live their life as contributions to perpetuating racism.
Or even their silence.
I’m done being a silent spectator. I ask my African American friends, and those who might read this I do not already know, to be patient with me. What can I say to encourage or support you? What can I do to try and make a difference, to be an effective anti-racist? I ask my white friends and those who might read this I don’t already know to take this journey with me, learning, listening, and speaking or writing words that are helpful.
Get your white skin in the game too. You are needed.